Los Angeles Times file photo
Here’s the earliest photograph I could find of a Lady in Black mourning Rudolph Valentino, Aug. 23, 1937, 11 years after the movie star’s death. In the first few years, memorial services were held on the anniversary, although the services eventually ceased and the large crowds dwindled to about 50 mourners.
In 1934, The Times referred to a “mysterious veiled woman” who visited the tomb every year at what was then Hollywood Cemetery. One story notes that a Lady in Black also appeared on Christmas and Easter. Someone wrote on the back of this photo: “Not Ditra Flame.” Are those white shoes?!
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Here’s a Lady in Black at a revival showing of “The Sheik,” at the Four Star Theater in Hollywood, June 3, 1938. She is also not Ditra Flame. |
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This is what the well-dressed Lady in Black was wearing in 1940. Those are awesome sunglasses, ma’am. She too is not Ditra Flame. |
 Photograph by Frank Q. Brown / Los Angeles Times
At last, Ditra Flame (two syllables, apparently pronounced Fla-may), Aug. 23, 1953. She identified herself as the president of the Hollywood Valentino Memorial Guild. |
 Photograph by William S. Murphy / Los Angeles TimesOn Aug. 23, 1976, the 50th anniversary of Valentino’s death, a Lady in Black and her companion arrived in a black limousine. “She knelt in silent homage and appeared to weep,” photographer William S. Murphy wrote. |
 Photograph by Douglas R. Burrows / Los Angeles TimesEstrellita de Rejil does a turn as a Lady in Black, Aug. 23, 1989. |
 Photograph by William S. Murphy / Los Angeles Times
This guy showed up in 1976 on the 50th anniversary of Valentino’s death. He called himself “The Owl.” |
 Los Angeles Times file photo
Yes, it’s a little Rudolph Valentino sheik ghostie. Or is this a haint? Isn’t he cute? Boo! I wish I could say we never actually published this picture, but we did, on May 1, 1952. It was in the Mirror, though, so maybe that’s not quite so bad. Note: This is Alpheus Corby’s “Castle,” built in Conklin, NY, in 1900. A medium said that Valentino’s ghost appeared to her here in 1926. Boo! Postscript: Ditra Flame died in 1978 in a home in Ontario cluttered with Valentino memorabilia. She was 78. |
Los Angeles Times file photo
Photograph by the Los Angeles Times
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Thanks for posting this–far better photos than in any book I’ve ever seen that mentioned the Ladies in Black. I kind of love the Sheik ghost illustration, though it looks like the artist had no good costume reference photos to draw on.
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